Do you consider your boyfriend’s female friend as a threat to your love affair? Do not snap to a conclusion before being certain whether they are only friends or anything more than that.
Jealousy can shade your thoughts and make you believe that your boyfriend is more than friends with his female friend, when it is false. But it might not be just jealousy always, and it might not be false always. Seek the answers to the following questions while monitoring your
boyfriend’s actions:
Does he spend too much time with her? How frequently they contact each other and how importantly he treats her phone calls? Do they flirt with one another? Do you feel that she
considers him more than a friend?
If they spend too much time with each other and often call up one another, then it can be a trouble. If they flirt with one another, it is a danger. If you feel she considers your boyfriend as more than a friend and they flirt, then the friendship is no longer just friendship. She is a threat only if your boyfriend gives her the chance by treating her way too importantly.
Your boyfriend might be unaware that his female friend has started considering him as more than a friend but he cannot be blind not to notice her flirting. And if she is her friend, he should be the one knowing her better. Your boyfriend is responsible for your insecurity.
Talk to your boyfriend frankly and tell him the reasons that make you feel insecure. You cannot snatch the right of him being friends with females, but at the same time, he should be careful about things that make you anxious. He should make you feel confident about your relationship. In case if he does not do so, you should try to find out your value in his life. Friends are important, but not at the cost of a relationship.
You can ask your boyfriend to break the friendship with his female friend only if she throws herself on him at every chance she gets. Discuss the matter calmly and tenderly with your partner.


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